Choosing Memento Vivere

Relationship Growth Assessment

Assessment of growth and development within romantic relationships.

Please reflect on your relationship and rate each statement.
Question 1 of 38
I find it relatively easy to get close to others
Question 2 of 38
I am comfortable depending on others
Question 3 of 38
I know that others will be there when I need them
Question 4 of 38
I do not often worry about being abandoned
Question 5 of 38
I do not worry about someone getting too close to me
Question 6 of 38
I am comfortable having others depend on me
Question 7 of 38
I am not sure that I can always depend on others to be there when I need them
Question 8 of 38
I often worry that my partner does not really love me
Question 9 of 38
I find that others are reluctant to get as close as I would like
Question 10 of 38
I often worry that my partner will not want to stay with me
Question 11 of 38
I want to merge completely with another person
Question 12 of 38
My desire to merge sometimes scares people away
Question 13 of 38
I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on others
Question 14 of 38
People are never there when you need them
Question 15 of 38
I find it difficult to trust others completely
Question 16 of 38
I am somewhat uncomfortable being close to others
Question 17 of 38
I am nervous when anyone gets too close
Question 18 of 38
Partners often want me to be more intimate than I feel comfortable being
Question 19 of 38
I try to investigate an issue with my partner to find a solution acceptable to both of us
Question 20 of 38
I try to integrate my ideas with my partner's to come up with a decision jointly
Question 21 of 38
I try to work with my partner to find solutions that satisfy both our expectations
Question 22 of 38
I exchange accurate information with my partner to solve a problem together
Question 23 of 38
I am usually firm in pursuing my side of the issue
Question 24 of 38
I use my influence to get my ideas accepted
Question 25 of 38
I use my authority to make a decision in my favor
Question 26 of 38
I sometimes use power to win a competitive situation
Question 27 of 38
I try to find a fair combination of gains and losses for both of us
Question 28 of 38
I propose a middle ground when disagreements arise
Question 29 of 38
I try to find a position that is between my partner's and mine
Question 30 of 38
I negotiate with my partner so that a compromise can be reached
Question 31 of 38
I try to avoid creating unpleasantness for myself by not addressing conflicts
Question 32 of 38
I try to keep my disagreements with my partner to myself in order to avoid hard feelings
Question 33 of 38
I avoid open discussion of my differences with my partner
Question 34 of 38
I try to stay away from disagreement with my partner
Question 35 of 38
I try to satisfy my partner's expectations
Question 36 of 38
I usually accommodate the wishes of my partner
Question 37 of 38
I often go along with the suggestions of my partner
Question 38 of 38
I often go along with the suggestions of my partner

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