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Mistaken Beliefs Questionnaire

Mistaken Beliefs Questionnaire — 57 items identifying limiting beliefs across 6 domains: Powerlessness, Dependency on Love, Need for Approval, Achievement-Based Worth, Distrust/Control, and Perfectionism.

Rate how much you agree with each statement.
Question 1 of 57
I feel powerless or helpless.
Question 2 of 57
Often I feel like a victim of outside circumstances.
Question 3 of 57
I don't have the money to do what I really want.
Question 4 of 57
There is seldom enough time to do what I want.
Question 5 of 57
Life is very difficult -- it's a struggle.
Question 6 of 57
If things are going well, watch out!
Question 7 of 57
I feel unworthy; I feel that I'm not good enough.
Question 8 of 57
Often I feel that I don't deserve to be successful or happy.
Question 9 of 57
Often I feel a sense of defeat and resignation: Why bother!
Question 10 of 57
My condition seems helpless.
Question 11 of 57
There is something fundamentally wrong with me.
Question 12 of 57
I feel ashamed of my condition.
Question 13 of 57
If I take risks to get better, I'm afraid I'll fail.
Question 14 of 57
If I take risks to get better, I'm afraid I'll succeed.
Question 15 of 57
If I recovered fully, I might have to deal with realities I'd rather not face.
Question 16 of 57
I feel like I'm nothing (or can't make it) unless I am loved.
Question 17 of 57
I can't stand being separated from others.
Question 18 of 57
If a person I love doesn't love me in return, I feel like it's my fault.
Question 19 of 57
It's very hard to be alone.
Question 20 of 57
What others think of me is very important.
Question 21 of 57
I feel personally threatened when criticized.
Question 22 of 57
It's important to please others.
Question 23 of 57
People won't like me if they see who I really am.
Question 24 of 57
I need to keep up a front or others will see my weaknesses.
Question 25 of 57
I have to achieve or produce something significant in order to feel okay about myself.
Question 26 of 57
My accomplishments at work/school are extremely important.
Question 27 of 57
Success is everything.
Question 28 of 57
I have to be the best at what I do.
Question 29 of 57
I have to be somebody -- somebody outstanding.
Question 30 of 57
To fail is terrible.
Question 31 of 57
I can't rely on others for help.
Question 32 of 57
I can't receive from others.
Question 33 of 57
If I let someone get too close, I'm afraid of being controlled.
Question 34 of 57
I can't tolerate being out of control.
Question 35 of 57
I'm the only one who can solve my problems.
Question 36 of 57
I should always be very generous and unselfish.
Question 37 of 57
I should be the perfect employee/professional/spouse/parent/friend.
Question 38 of 57
I should be able to endure any hardship.
Question 39 of 57
I should be able to find a quick solution to every problem.
Question 40 of 57
I should never be tired or fatigued.
Question 41 of 57
I should always be efficient.
Question 42 of 57
I should always be competent.
Question 43 of 57
I should always be able to foresee everything.
Question 44 of 57
I should never be angry or irritable.
Question 45 of 57
I should always be pleasant or nice no matter how I feel.
Question 46 of 57
I often feel ugly, inferior, unintelligent, or guilty/ashamed.
Question 47 of 57
I'm just the way I am -- I can't really change.
Question 48 of 57
The world outside is a dangerous place.
Question 49 of 57
Unless you worry about a problem it just gets worse.
Question 50 of 57
It's risky to trust people.
Question 51 of 57
My problems will go away on their own with time.
Question 52 of 57
I feel anxious about making mistakes.
Question 53 of 57
I demand perfection of myself.
Question 54 of 57
If I didn't have my safe person (or safe place), I'm afraid I couldn't cope.
Question 55 of 57
If I stop worrying, I'm afraid something bad will happen.
Question 56 of 57
I'm afraid to face the world out there on my own.
Question 57 of 57
My self-worth isn't a given -- it has to be earned.

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