Choosing Memento Vivere

Anger Styles Self-Assessment

A 30-item self-reflection tool identifying common patterns of anger expression across ten styles, grouped into three broader anger families. Auto-scored, with results routed to your clinician.

About this assessment

What it measures

This 30-item self-reflection tool looks at how anger shows up for you — not how much anger you feel, but the style it tends to take. It draws on Ron Potter-Efron’s work identifying ten common anger styles, which cluster into three broader families: masked anger (anger you hide or don’t notice — Anger Avoidance, Sneaky Anger, Paranoid Anger), explosive anger (anger that erupts — Sudden Anger, Shame-Based Anger, Deliberate Anger, Addictive Anger), and chronic anger (anger that lingers as a stance toward life — Habitual Anger, Moral Anger, Hate).

Why it helps

Nobody has just one style, and no style makes you a bad person — each pattern developed for a reason and once did a job for you. Seeing your profile across all ten styles gives you and your therapist a shared map: which patterns are costing you the most, and which skills (assertiveness, repair, self-compassion, tolerating discomfort) would help most.

How to answer

Answer for how things have generally been over recent months, not just this week. Go with your first honest response — the styles you’d rather not admit to are usually the most useful ones to see.

This questionnaire looks at different ways people tend to experience and express anger. Answer Yes or No for each statement below based on how you generally are, not how you think you should be. There are no right or wrong answers.
Question 1 of 30
I try never to get angry.
Question 2 of 30
I get really nervous when others are angry.
Question 3 of 30
I feel I'm doing something bad when I get angry.
Question 4 of 30
I tell people I'll do what they want, but then I often forget.
Question 5 of 30
I say things like “yeah, but…” and “I'll do it later.”
Question 6 of 30
People tell me I must be angry but I'm not sure why.
Question 7 of 30
I get jealous a lot, even when there is no reason.
Question 8 of 30
I don't trust people very much.
Question 9 of 30
Sometimes it feels like people are out to get me.
Question 10 of 30
My anger comes on really fast.
Question 11 of 30
I act before I think when I get angry.
Question 12 of 30
My anger goes away very quickly after I explode.
Question 13 of 30
I get very angry when people criticize me.
Question 14 of 30
People say I am easily hurt and oversensitive.
Question 15 of 30
I get angry when I feel bad about myself.
Question 16 of 30
I get mad in order to get what I want.
Question 17 of 30
I try to scare others with my anger.
Question 18 of 30
I can pretend to be very mad when I'm really OK.
Question 19 of 30
Sometimes I get angry just for the excitement or action.
Question 20 of 30
I like the strong feelings that come with my anger.
Question 21 of 30
My anger takes over and I go out of control.
Question 22 of 30
I seem to get angry all the time.
Question 23 of 30
I just can't break the habit of getting angry a lot.
Question 24 of 30
I get mad without thinking – it just happens.
Question 25 of 30
I become very angry when I defend my beliefs.
Question 26 of 30
I feel outraged about what others try to get away with.
Question 27 of 30
I always know I'm right in an argument.
Question 28 of 30
I hang onto my anger for a long time.
Question 29 of 30
I have a hard time forgiving people.
Question 30 of 30
I hate people for what they've done to me.

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